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🩺 How Nurse Leaders Can Leverage AI to Improve Outcome
If you’re still hesitant about using AI in nursing leadership, you’re already behind. The truth is—AI isn’t replacing nurse leaders, it’s enhancing them. When I first started using AI, I didn’t really have a plan. I was just playing around with it, using it for small things here and there. I’ve always loved writing, and when I started using AI to help me organize my thoughts, my writing improved. Then I began using it with intention—to grow as a person, a nurse leader, and a

Bilquis Ali
11 hours ago4 min read


🌅 While You Sleep, I’m Building Me
Excellence isn’t born at 9 a.m. — it starts long before the world wakes up. When people ask about my morning routine and I say it starts at 4 a.m., they usually respond with an “OMG, you’re crazy!” But here’s the thing — this is a habit I’ve built over time, and it works for me. My daily routine is made up of small, consistent habits I’ve practiced for years. Success doesn’t come from showing up on time — it comes from showing up prepared. While you’re sleeping, I’m working

Bilquis Ali
Oct 212 min read


💜 The Power of Feedback: A Reminder That Your Impact Matters
There’s something about waking up on a Monday morning, checking your phone, and seeing a 5-star review that makes you pause in gratitude. It’s not just about the stars — it’s about the reminder that your work matters . As a Director of Nursing , feedback hits different. Yesterday, after a coaching call with one of my amazing nurse leaders, I received this review: “Absolute amazing experience, super insightful and inspiring. I’m looking forward to continuing learning and growi

Bilquis Ali
Oct 202 min read


When Residents Refuse Care: Protecting Their Rights and Your License
Hey boo hey 💜 If you’ve been in long-term care long enough, you’ve seen it — the resident who refuses therapy, refuses care, and refuses every safety intervention you try to put in place. As the Director of Nursing, you’re left worrying every time they walk across the room, knowing a fall could happen at any moment. It’s one of the hardest parts of the job — wanting to protect your residents while honoring their right to make choices, even risky ones. I recently read a post

Bilquis Ali
Oct 193 min read


💜 When Friday Ends in Chaos — and Why I’m Still in Control
What. A. Weak. And of course, nothing says Friday in long-term care like ending it in a full-blown… well, you know what kind of show I’m talking about. 😂 If you know, you know. The last-minute admissions. The surprise family complaints. The staffing call-outs — all within the last two hours when you thought you were finally about to exhale. 🩺 But Here’s the Thing — I Was Still in Control Not because the day was perfect — it wasn’t. But because my systems were. I knew what

Bilquis Ali
Oct 182 min read


🩺 When One Problem’s Fixed… and Five More Show Up: Welcome to Leadership
A blog for Directors of Nursing and Nurse Leaders on building systems, reducing chaos, and leading with consistency in long-term care. Hey boo hey, If you know me, you already know — I don’t gatekeep. I share what I’ve learned because there’s enough success for all of us. We can’t make it alone. We need each other to grow, lead, and thrive. That’s what real nurse leadership development looks like. I’m currently on another travel Director of Nursing assignment — and let me t

Bilquis Ali
Oct 133 min read


Declutter Your Brain, Delegate Like a Boss: The DON Clarity System is Here!
If you’re a Director of Nursing who’s drowning in sticky notes, endless to-dos, and pure chaos… baby, this blog is your rescue boat. 🛟💥...

Bilquis Ali
Apr 302 min read


If You Won’t Invest in You, Who Will?
These last few days, showing up has been my motto. I attended an event hosted by the incredible JT Foxx — and let me tell you, calling...

Bilquis Ali
Apr 243 min read


What Happens When You Show Up Every Day (Even When It’s Hard)
What happens when you show up every single day? You gain confidence . You build credibility in your world. You become the go-to person...

Bilquis Ali
Apr 232 min read


You’re Running Around Trying to Lead… But No One’s Following
You’re running around trying to lead your team… but your team can’t even follow because there are no systems in place. Can you relate to...

Bilquis Ali
Apr 172 min read


The Power of the Clinical Stand-Down: The End-of-Day Strategy Every Nurse Leader Needs
Let’s talk about the Clinical Stand-Down. Clinical Stand-Down is the end-of-day meeting I highly encourage all nurse leaders to...

Bilquis Ali
Apr 142 min read


How to Get IT Done: Educate Before You Delegate
Hey, let’s be real—being a leader isn’t about doing everything yourself. It’s about knowing how to get shit done by working smart, not...

Bilquis Ali
Oct 27, 20243 min read


7 Ways to Overcome Leadership Stress
What a freaking day—scratch that—what a freaking few weeks it’s been! I can’t believe we’re already in the last quarter of the year. Time...

Bilquis Ali
Oct 8, 20244 min read


The Hard Lesson of Follow-Through: Why Delegation Isn't Enough
Let me tell you something—delegation is a beautiful thing… until it isn’t. I learned this lesson the hard way (of course) and, baby, it...

Bilquis Ali
Sep 6, 20242 min read
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