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Stop Micromanaging: Empower Your Team and Lead with Trust
Hey boo hey! 💕 Let’s talk about one of my biggest frustrations as both a floor nurse and a manager: micromanagement. If you’ve ever...

Bilquis Ali
Dec 8, 20242 min read


From People-Pleaser to Boundary Setter: A Self-Care Journey
Hey boo hey! 💕 Let’s get real—if you’re anything like me, chances are you say “yes” far too often, even when every part of you is...

Bilquis Ali
Dec 8, 20242 min read


The Power of Pausing: Just Me, My Keyboard, and Peace
Hey boo hey, Today, I needed a break. A break from everything —from being a mother, a nurse leader, a business owner—all the roles that...

Bilquis Ali
Dec 2, 20242 min read


Weekend Prep: 3 Must-Do Tips for Directors of Nursing
Hey boo hey, Let’s talk about something every Director of Nursing dreads— weekends . While the weekend should be a time to unwind (or at...

Bilquis Ali
Nov 29, 20242 min read


The Number One Misconception About Nurses Working in Nursing Homes
There’s a persistent and frustrating myth about nurses working in nursing homes: that they don’t have the clinical skills needed to work...

Bilquis Ali
Nov 8, 20244 min read


The Number One Tool for Directors of Nursing: Stay Organized, Reduce Stress, and Prioritize Self-Care
When I transitioned from the role of Unit Manager to Director of Nursing, one major area I had to improve was my organizational skills....

Bilquis Ali
Nov 3, 20242 min read


Goal Setting for Nurses: Building a Path to Success
As nurses, whether we’re just starting out or stepping into new leadership roles, having a clear plan is essential. When you begin your...

Bilquis Ali
Nov 2, 20242 min read


Beyond the Clock: How Focusing on Value Can Boost Your Income as a DON
When I first stepped into the role of Director of Nursing, I was like many others—I focused on how much I’d make per hour. It seemed...

Bilquis Ali
Oct 27, 20245 min read


Empowering Your Team: Why Training is Essential for Every Role in Long-Term Care
Empowering your team is everything as the Director of Nursing. I remember when I used to micromanage every task and every person—it was a...

Bilquis Ali
Oct 25, 20241 min read


Digging Deep: The Importance of Root Cause Analysis in Nursing
It's Monday morning, and you're coming off the weekend. Depending on what that entails, let's dive into root cause analysis this morning...

Bilquis Ali
Oct 21, 20242 min read


Embrace Self-Care Sunday: Prioritize Your Well-Being
Today was my planned Self-Care Sunday, and it felt so good to lay in bed for an extra three hours. Typically, I'm up at 4 AM, but today I...

Bilquis Ali
Oct 20, 20242 min read


Responsiblities of a Director of Nursing in the Nursing Home Setting
When people ask me, "What does a Director of Nursing (DON) do?" I often respond, "What don’t they do?" And I think that’s a fair...

Bilquis Ali
Oct 18, 20242 min read


Stop Struggling with Staffing: Here’s How to Build a Strong Nursing Team
If you’ve been losing sleep over staffing issues, I know exactly how you feel. As a Director of Nursing, one of the biggest challenges I...

Bilquis Ali
Sep 28, 20242 min read


What Keeps You Up At Night?
Can you relate to that picture? Waking up frantically in the middle of the night, heart racing as you scramble to answer the phone. I...

Bilquis Ali
Sep 27, 20242 min read


From One DON to Another: The Heart and Hustle of Being a DON
I know there are times when you think you’ve chosen the wrong career. Just when you feel like you’ve got it all figured out, here comes...

Bilquis Ali
Sep 25, 20242 min read


Wednesdays Are Made for Winning: Let's Celebrate!
Ah, Wednesdays—halfway to the weekend, and let’s be honest, sometimes it feels like we’re just dragging ourselves through the week. But...

Bilquis Ali
Sep 24, 20242 min read


Implementing New Policies: How to Roll Out New Policies Without Losing Your Team's Trust
Let’s face it—implementing new policies can feel like you’ve just been handed a bomb with the timer already ticking. I remember getting...

Bilquis Ali
Sep 21, 20243 min read


Stop Being Soft: The Tough Love You Need as a Director of Nursing
Let’s be real for a minute—the role of a Director of Nursing is no walk in the park. If you’re here expecting a soft ride, I hate to...

Bilquis Ali
Sep 18, 20243 min read


When to Walk Away: Knowing It's Time to Leave Your Job as a Director of Nursing
As a coach and mentor, I'm frequently asked, "When is it time to throw in the towel?" And honestly, my answer is pretty much the same...

Bilquis Ali
Sep 17, 20243 min read


Mastering the Night Shift: How to Complete a Chart Check
So, you're on the night shift, huh? You’ve probably heard your Director of Nursing or Nursing Supervisor mention chart checks a time or...

Bilquis Ali
Sep 16, 20243 min read
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